Guwahati, July 12: On the morning of May 2, a significant event took place at the Ugratara Temple in Uzanbazar, marking what is believed to be the first transgender wedding held at a prominent temple in Assam.
Taira Bhattacharjee and Bikramjit Sutradhar exchanged their vows under the sacred presence of Goddess Tara, a symbol of fierce protection and maternal strength.
For many, the Ugratara Temple serves not only as a site for rituals but also as a sanctuary where individuals can share their burdens with the divine. This made it an ideal location for Taira and Bikramjit, whose journey embodies friendship, resilience, and quiet bravery.
Taira, a Maligaon resident, began her gender transition in 2017. Before contemplating marriage, she and Bikramjit, from Chandmari, developed a close friendship that evolved into a deep bond characterized by mutual support and unwavering loyalty. Throughout Taira’s transition, Bikramjit remained by her side, helping her navigate both practical challenges and emotional hurdles that often go unnoticed by those outside the transgender community.
However, Taira’s story extends beyond her gender identity. She has been the primary caregiver for her mother, who is bedridden due to Alzheimer’s disease. Taira made the difficult decision to leave her job as a librarian to provide full-time care, showcasing her compassion and sense of responsibility.
For the couple, their marriage was not about extravagance but about dignity — the opportunity to openly celebrate their love, seek blessings in a temple like any other couple, and have their commitment legally recognized. Their marriage was officially registered on May 26.
Acceptance from Bikramjit’s family did not come instantly. Like many families, they required time to comprehend and accept their son's choice. It took years of open dialogue and trust-building. Ultimately, on the wedding day, both families came together — not out of obligation, but from genuine support.
The ceremony was understated, devoid of grand gestures or defiance. It was a heartfelt affirmation of their right to love and be loved with dignity. For Taira and Bikramjit, this marks the beginning of a new chapter — one rooted in love that is patient, resilient, and profoundly authentic.
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